God cannot and should not fulfill our wishes because the consequences are dangerous. Any change in your reality will alter the world’s reality. You getting a car/home/job in an unintended way or time will disturb the fragile order and set in chaos. Likewise, god saving you from death too will start a wildfire that might kill tens if not thousands in some unimaginable ways and means. Reality should be allowed to flow in its own path without obstruction. For instance, if the lord lets you unite with your lover then you as a personality change in a different manner and react in some other unique method that kindles a chain reaction and events that no one can alter unless everything in the universe is destroyed and started afresh.