The problems that you encounter more or less define where you are in life. If the delay of Amazon delivery is your biggest problem to worry then it shows our priorities and the state of our living. Bigger problems put you in a different plane which in turn puts us in a different direction and path. Petty problems, petty life. It’s that simple.
Serenity
The most practical question we can ask about a difficult situation is: Is it
in our control or is it not? Sweating over situations that aren’t in our
control isn’t the right choice on any given day.
Anger
I’ve realized that people are angry about some issues but they vent out on other ones. The real problem with your manager might be that you are getting too close to the boss and the possible promotion in near future. But they vent out on you over some statistical error in the monthly report. If someone is arguing in a heated way then pause and think over the elephant in the room that’s bothering if the relationship is worth saving in the first place. By this, at least you can worry about the right matter.
Problem Perspective
It is easy to fix when you are the problem or when you have the problem. On the other hand, it’s quite hard
when the world is the problem or when the world gives you a damn problem. Wish that you always have the former ones
and not the latter ones.
Cheering up yourself or fixing your mood by eating your favorite food or talking to someone else across the table
is way easier than fighting racism or hatred shown just because you belong to a particular region or religion.
Thy Vox 