These 5 Rules changed “How I see the world.”

Some pills are hard to swallow but only once they get into the system can we grow high in life. We all want to touch the sky and get into that 1% league, for that more than anything we need to first embrace their mindset and then the skill-set, heart-set, and spirit-set, as Robin Sharma puts it in his “5 A.M.Club.”

These truths are not for doubters but for ready embracers who are filling to find their “Ikigai” in life and get unstuck of the rut they are in.
They are discomforting to the core and can unleash mental vomit.

Nonetheless, if you are someone who can and want to endure short-term pain for long-term pleasure, then they are for you.

  • 1) You should be able to handle the criticism.

Nicholas Klein, a trade union activist, said in a 1918 speech, saying, “First they ignore you. Then they ridicule you. And then they attack you and want to burn you. And then they build monuments for you.”

The world is full of Skeletors who want to pull you down no matter what you do. It’s a lifelong tussle and hassle that never stops. Get this into your head—you will be judged even when you do the noblest of things in the universe.
Even if people don’t do that, circumstances will belittle you. Bad finances, bad health, unsupportive partners all come like a storm ready to lift off your pale foundations.

Your baby steps will be hunted down and stopped like highway patrol police. You want to chase your dream but your boss nags you with deadlines that don’t matter.

No, energy will not support you either. You are not a sun to constantly get the support of photons to shine on. And you won’t find any ladder that can pull you up.

The fact is this B.S. doesn’t stop and you should bury this truth deep down in your neural space. The law is—things get worse and worse just at the time when you feel that things are getting a little better.

The good thing is you are not alone and you never will be. Even Buddha had got meditation issues. So when you can’t justify that headspace subscription, don’t worry.

Johnwick has them, Thor has them, and Thanos had them. They all struggled and are struggling to get what they want.

Your job is simply to find a way around, find that little start around that problem. This is not idealism but very very practical. No matter what, it’s your job and your job alone to pull off that rose-tinted glasses and search for a solution like Tintin or Sherlock.

This is easy once know that—
1)shit storms come at you
2)I should not be surprised
3)I Simply need that one way out and one hook that I can hang on to.

Look, it’s a skill that we master over time. You need to be aware of this. Only after Nth time we get knocked down, we scrape the surface of it.
Put that helmet on and you will be safe.

  • 2)Idealism happen to exist only in books.

You never get to choose in life. I’m not talking about your coffee or clothing choices but the life-changing ones, if you know what I mean.

You prepare for the test but the questions are off the chart. You do an all-nighter yet the presentation doesn’t impress the clients.

You think merit alone matters but injustice waits around the corner wearing many hats—racism, harassment, and whatnot.


“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” That’s Lao Tzu for you. Yes, the old man got the message.
Accepting what is, is not some esoteric-philosophical-fresh from ass wisdom. The point is you cannot do anything else.
Yes, we need more money in the account. That’s not happening anytime soon. Yes, you were promised a promotion but it slipped away. And Yes, you of all people deserve a big success but I’m tired of using buts here.

it’s more than clear now that reality differs from movies and fairy tales.
Chris got it in “The pursuit of happiness” finally, however, it’s not for us.

What should we do—save the shit for yourselves and save the mental energy. Whining and Weeping hard only makes things worse.
1)Correct flaws, if any.
2)Wait for the next opportunity.
3)Stick for a long time. In other words, the “Persistence.”

  • 3)Messiah is not coming for you.

Mentors won’t come for you. The dream job won’t fall in your lap and no leader or government will come to save your little ass.

As Winston Churchill remarks—the price of greatness is responsibility.
No Jesus is coming out to change these bad fates for you. It’s been 2020 years and that’s long enough proof for you.

The employer won’t magically recognize your work and give that raise that you’ve been eye-balling. The point is you alone are responsible for your growth. No devil demon is haunting you and no sweet angel wants to help you either.

Accepting this is kind of liberating. And no need to search for blame-shifting. Recognize that you are the trouble maker and it’s you who sabotaged it.
“Only you can pull yourself off the hell.”

  • 4)Regrets kill you, like for real.

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves – regret for the past and fear of the future.”—Fulton Oursler.

This self-crucifixion doesn’t move the needle much. Yes, you couldn’t put the efforts that were needed into that job interview and yes, you couldn’t read much when you were supposed to in college.

But that shit happened like aeons ago and you’re still pity-partying over it. Now, that kills your now and future. Do you really think your ideals made this far without mistakes? Are you really that naive?

No one rejected you, they rejected your idea in that sales pitch. No one said “No”, they said “No” only to your mediocre version. How you handle it depends entirely and almost entirely on your ego.

Use the rejection to bring out the best in you.

  • 5)Luck never finds you, at least not in my case.

“Diligence is the mother of good luck.”—Benjamin Franklin

Only by regularly working and knocking on every damn door you can find makes you lucky. This means getting lucky is some very ass-hardening stuff.
Newton saw the apple and could find gravitational stuff only because he’s been into it for years and aha-moment came to him when that red thing fell on his head. That’s it, I promise you there’s no divine intervention here.

Inspiration comes only through perspiration. So, don’t get fooled when someone utters the word inspiration from their shiny mouth.
it’s very logical if you can wrap your head around it.

Blogging ideas come only when you constantly blog. Poetry comes when you always read and write poems. The interview offers come only when you apply for lots of them and do your networking thing.

Finally, I leave this hard burning quote so that your hearts never find sleep by Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Shallow men believe in luck or in circumstance. Strong men believe in cause and effect.”


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